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faith green
Well I think you would know by testing the spirit.
Antoinette Jones
This is all true,if you ask God to order your steps according to proverb3:5-6 and have faith in God's word. The answer will come.I did all that and marriage ended in divorce
Larry Truelove
If you are a Christian living for God and if the other person is a Christian who is living for God, I don't know of any scriptures which say "this is how to identify THE ONE."
Risks of divorce are higher today because people take commitments less seriously. Get plenty of counseling, make sure the other person has good character and a compatible temperament. But even then marriage is a difficult institution, no matter how sincere and enthusiastic the two partners are.
There is no fool proof method to guarantee success. Perseverance is also important.